Violence is a learned behavior.  It can be unlearned.

What You Can Do

At Home

For Your Kids    

At School    

At Work    

In Your Community

Our Complete Community Action Guide

For more ideas, check out our Community Action Guide for ideas on planning a campaign in your community.  [Community:   A group of people living, working, or learning together. ]  The entire guide can be viewed or downloaded for free in Adobe Acrobat format.  You will need Adobe Acrobat Reader, (free download from Adobe Web site).

At Home

Consider how you resolve conflict and react to stress.  Do you ever use words that shame, humiliate, intimidate?  Do you hold in your anger and take it out later on others?  Managing anger is a discipline that takes practice.

  • Take time to cool down.

  • Listen respectfully.  Speak respectfully.

  • Focus on the problem, not the person.

  • Be open to compromise.

  • Turn off violent entertainment and do something fun, safe, & healthy.   Or, if you’ve already chosen to turn off violent entertainment, turn it back on and see what America’s children are being exposed to.

Write at least one letter to a television sponsor, video game company or music company. 

 

Send an e-mail to a friend telling them about Turn Off the Violence and inviting them to participate.

 

Contact us to learn about how you can contribute your time, resources, or talents to the momentum of the Turn Off the Violence campaign.

 

For Your Kids

Teach your kids to love reading.  (Language skills help them express anger without violence.)

Demonstrate respect.

Demonstrate nonviolent conflict resolution.

Talk about your values.

Listen.

Set boundaries.  There's a popular myth that "You just can't discipline kids anymore or you'll be arrested."  It's false.  There are a lot of positive ways to discipline kids without violence.  

At School

Ask your school district, principal, or your child's teacher to include creative conflict resolution concepts into their lesson plans. Turn Off the Violence has an Educator’s Guide with lesson plans for grades pre-K through 12.

  • In history class, study peacemakers.

  • In language arts, read about peacemakers.  Write about what would change if there were no violence.

  • In phy ed, learn about sportsmanship.

  • In music sing about peace, or study the relationship between music and emotions.  Does some music make you feel uptight and aggressive?  Does some make you feel calm?

  • Implement a bullying prevention campaign from the Turn Off the Violence materials.

There’s much more in our 
Turn Off the Violence Educator's Guide!

At Work

Teach all company leaders how to lead by inspiration rather than intimidation.

Become a corporate member or supporter of the Turn Off the Violence coalition.  Contributions of services, equipment, supplies, or dollars are important to making Turn Off the Violence grow. In-kind contributions have been as important to the success of Turn Off the Violence as financial contributions.  

Sponsor a Turn Off the Violence event for employees and their families, or the community.  

Host a speaker about some issue of violence, such as keeping your kids safe, domestic violence, workplace violence, bullying, media violence, etc.

Turn Off the Violence has reproducible paycheck stuffers and brochures on which you can print your company name as a supporter. Use our Community Action Guide for more ideas.

Promote the campaign to your family, friends, co-workers, employees, mailing lists, and visitors to your office. 

In Your Community

Arrange to have information about the Turn Off the Violence campaign included in your school, business, or faith community newsletter. Sample newsletter announcement.

Organize a single Turn Off the Violence event or an entire community campaign.

Our Community Action Guide can help get you started and it includes plenty of advice from other people across the country who've planned their own campaigns in their schools, businesses, faith communities, or towns.   Begin here by reading about organizing a powerful grassroots campaign on a shoestring budget.

Sample Newsletter Article

Imagine a day without any violence.  No fear for yourself or your family.  Even those of us who haven't been touched directly by violence experience mistrust of strangers and fear for our children.  [Organization] has joined the Turn Off the Violence Coalition in an effort to make the world a safer place.  We can't change the world, but we can each change our small corner of it.  October 11 is "Turn Off the Violence Day."  Please join us in the campaign.  On that day, turn off violent entertainment; practice healthy ways of managing anger; and resolve to treat family, friends, and co-workers with respect.   We can do it for one day.  Then maybe we can do it the next day and the next.  For more information visit www.turnofftheviolence.org

 

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