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LITTLE GIRL
Narrator: Violence is actions and words
that hurt people. |
My name is Kelly. The people
who used to be my parents were ashamed of me because I was slow. They kept
me chained to my bed. The neighbor found out and called someone.
I'm getting a new family who will take better care of me. |
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WOMAN
Narrator: Violence is any action that
is an abuse a/power and where the intent is to control by causing fear,
pain, or hurt. |
My name is Mary. My husband
is a military officer. He accuses me of flirting with other men and he
slaps me around. I used to believe he must really love me to be so jealous.
Now I realize it's just important to him to have control over everyone
in his life. I'm ashamed to tell anyone about what's happening to me....
They wouldn't believe me. |
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MAN
Narrator: Physical violence is hurting
a person's body or the things a person cares about. |
My name was Roy. I owned a
small grocery store for 32 years and worked long hours keeping it going.
One day some teenagers came in and asked for cigarettes. I turned around
towards them and one was pointing a gun at me. I pleaded with them not
to hurt me because I had a family. They trashed my store while I watched
helplessly. Then they took the money from the cash register and the one
with the gun pointed it towards my chest and pulled the trigger. I died
instantly. |
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ELDERLY WOMAN
Narrator: Verbal violence is using words
to humiliate or intimidate a person. |
My name is Esther. My daughter
just moved in with me. She left her husband who was beating her. She has
started to drink a lot recently. When she's drunk she tells me I'm stupid,
old, and good for nothing. Sometimes she hits me. I don't want to kick
her out because she has nowhere else to go. |
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YOUNG WOMAN
Narrator: Any sexual contact between an
adult and a child is sexual violence. |
My name is Jessica. One of
my earliest memories is the "secret game" Daddy used to play with me at
bedtime. I didn't like the way he touched me, but he said it was his way
of showing that he loved me. When I got older and realized that what he
was doing was wrong, I told my Morn, but she said I must be dreaming it.
Daddy would never do such a thing and if I talked about it any more she
was going to punish me. ... People TALK about love, but I don't believe
it any more. |
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DEPUTY SHERIFF
Narrator: Physical violence is hurting
a person's body. |
My name was Deputy Morrow.
I loved my job as a deputy sheriff. My home town held the largest parade
in its history in my honor. One night in the summer of 1990, I pulled over
a suspected drunk driver, a man I'd dealt with many times before. While
I was talking with him he grabbed my flashlight and smashed me over the
head with it. He left me dying in a pool of my own blood at the side of
the highway. Isn't it a shame that the town's biggest-ever parade was for
my funeral. |
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OFFICE WORKER
Narrator: Sexual harassment is violence. |
My name is Terry. I really
liked my job until my supervisor started to make comments about my body.
It only happened when we were alone. He asked me a few times to go out
on a date with him. I told him I wasn't interested. A couple of times he
even tried to kiss me or grab me. I finally got so upset that I quit my
job. I couldn't take it anymore. Everyone else in the office thought he
was such a great guy. |
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TEENAGER
Narrator: Sexual violence is forced or
coerced sexual touching. |
My name is Ellen. It was the
first date I had ever been on. I thought Dan was such a nice guy and I
thought I could trust him. He was on the football team and a member of
student council. I told him after the movie I had to go home. He drove
out beyond my house to a rural area. He said he had paid for my movie and
now I had to pay him back. He raped me in the car. |
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CHILD REACHING OUT
Narrator: Societal violence occurs when
our nation, institutions and media portray violence as a method of resolving
conflict, expressing anger, and controlling others. |
My name is Josh. I'm the smallest
one in my class at school. The other kids pick on me and tease me a lot,
especially Tommy. He's a real bully. He watches a lot of cartoons and TV
shows about karate and he thinks he's some kind of karate expert. When
we play games on the playground, he argues about the rules and then punches
and kicks anyone who disagrees. My Morn says it's just a part of growing
up that I have to work through and Dad says I shouldn't be such a wimp...
I should hit Tommy back. I'm tired of being afraid. |
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BABY
Narrator: Violence is a learned behavior.
It can be unlearned.
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My name was Alison. I was 2
months old when I died. My parents were only 16 years old when I was born.
I guess I cried a lot. One day my Morn and I were alone and I was crying.
She yelled at me, threw me in the crib and when that didn't stop the crying
she shook me. I died a few hours later. ...I wonder if her Morn or Dad
ever did that to her? |
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POLICE OFFICER
(Shine the light on a real person, real
officer in uniform if possible.) |
My name is............ I'm
a police officer and I'm tired of dealing with, and cleaning up after,
the violence I see every day in my job. I'm tired of the lack of respect
for property, the lack of respect for one another and the lack of respect
for human life. I'm tired of the movies, television, music, and video games
that glamorize violence and destruction without showing its consequences.
Where does it all end? Where does the change begin?
Turn the lights out. After a moment,
turn the lights on and remind
people that "it starts right here, with people just like you."
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